Trying to understand people is a huge waste of time

All my life I would try to understand why people did this or that... why people didn't do this or that. After starting my home-based business I would ask myself "why the heck would anyone say no to saving money" or "why in hell would anyone say no to maybe making some extra money just by showing people a better way to shop?" Needless, to say I never got my answer. But after a conversation with my mentor about this she told me to STOP trying to understand people!! Easy for her to say... sometimes I think too much, I guess. lol But, ya know, she was right! I need to stop thinking about why people do or don't do things. I just need to focus on those that are ready to make a difference in others' lives and focus on those that are ready to understand what I do. Trying to understand people just adds more stress to me and with 3 kids... sometimes 4 with my husband lol... I definitely don't need more stress! :) So people... don't try to understand anyone but yourself. Worry about YOU! To some that might sounds selfish but you HAVE to! Otherwise, your life will pass you by quicker then anything because you were too worried about understanding why a friend was a complete ass when you were just trying to help or why someone said no to you when you wanted to show them something that would make a difference in their lives! When you understand YOU and worry about you and your's... you create peace (I believe) with yourself and you're a much more positive person!