Trying to understand people is a huge waste of time

All my life I would try to understand why people did this or that... why people didn't do this or that. After starting my home-based business I would ask myself "why the heck would anyone say no to saving money" or "why in hell would anyone say no to maybe making some extra money just by showing people a better way to shop?" Needless, to say I never got my answer. But after a conversation with my mentor about this she told me to STOP trying to understand people!! Easy for her to say... sometimes I think too much, I guess. lol But, ya know, she was right! I need to stop thinking about why people do or don't do things. I just need to focus on those that are ready to make a difference in others' lives and focus on those that are ready to understand what I do. Trying to understand people just adds more stress to me and with 3 kids... sometimes 4 with my husband lol... I definitely don't need more stress! :) So people... don't try to understand anyone but yourself. Worry about YOU! To some that might sounds selfish but you HAVE to! Otherwise, your life will pass you by quicker then anything because you were too worried about understanding why a friend was a complete ass when you were just trying to help or why someone said no to you when you wanted to show them something that would make a difference in their lives! When you understand YOU and worry about you and your's... you create peace (I believe) with yourself and you're a much more positive person!

A bit about me (more mom stuff then my "about me" lol)

I'm a mom to 3 little kiddos... 2 beautiful little girls who are 2 and 3 years old; and a baby boy that is 8 months old (born in May 09). I'm a crazy and busy mom to say the least but I love it! :-) In my blogging I will share with you my life on almost a daily basis, how I keep sane, what I'm doing, some tips and advice for other moms, and even some new tib-bits I get from some books I'm reading... including leadership and business books. I'm a work from home mommy and love what I do! I love to meet new moms and just chat about our life... our kids, which just might include our significant others. lol :-) You will probably see alot about my company that I am apart of but get use to it because they are a HUGE part of my life! You have your opinions and I have mine... I'm very open-minded but depending on what it is concerning can be "stuck" in my ways. Call me stubborn, that's okay, I'm a woman and allowed to be. lol Hope you ladies get something out of this and if you have any questions or what have you feel free to contact me! :-)
Email: momwithadream@gmail.com
MSN messanger: buildinggreen43@hotmail.com
WAH website (if you're interested in checking it out) http://www.enhancinglivesfromhome.com/